The desire to love someone through and through and to be loved that way in return—for a lifetime—burns in the hearts of most everyone. Yet even though we are all truly worthy of such a love it is not something that will simply ‘happen’ to us. A superb relationship, one that satisfies and stimulates to the core, is an extraordinary accomplishment, equal to high achievement in realms of business and the arts, science and sports. Such relationships are rare, not because people lack the capacity for loving, but because they don’t know how to make the shift from falling in love to sustaining that love over many years, creating and recreating it again and again. Read more . . .